"How when some small things happened, and ur girlfren keep on thinkng all those bad things that are unnecessary or things that not true lets say u chit chat wit a girl and say "ya too long no see u and miss u" and girlfren found out, keep on thinking u got something with her but actually both of u , u and that girl just normal net fren and never see each other b4, or even dont have a chance in the life time to see each other."
feedbacks-
"Erhm.. Maybe u can stop saying "miss u" to other girls? Give and take? No big deal, can always say "yo long time no see" istd.. Lol... Next time, if small matter but the girl make it into big matter, try a different technique.. Try pujuk her, feed her ice-cream, and say someting lovey-dovey, when u see her smile means OKIES edi. LOL."
"you dun go around missing people for nothing lah.. of course the gf will get jealous because we only want the bf to miss us and not some other girls."
"Different ppl have different point of view. On average, an adult human male body produces about forty to sixty times more testosterone than an adult female body. don expect ur gf to hv the same thought as u..."
"hmm.. my guy friends says that girls who are too free thinks too much.. as in, college girls who have nothing to worried about and those who stay at home wait for husband or bf to feed them.."
"why wanna add "miss u"?"
"conclusion is: ALL LADIES are sensitive. bear with it. so stop saying 'miss u' stuff to other female frens already. lol if u still wanna go ahead..do so, but nvr let ur other half find out. or else..u phail"
"all ladies are sensitive thats why we talking whats make the mind so...."
"how can u question the mind of nature? God made us think that way.. maybe u can ask God."
"Well put urself in her shoes and imagine males sending her 'miss you so much' messages to her, are you gonna be like, oh that's fine?"
"different ppl have different ways of intepreting words. why say something you don't mean? that would make you pretty much a hypocrite, no? "
"sometimes is not your gf or girls think too much where as a guy or you has the responsibility to secure your gf in terms of her feeling and thinking. In other words you shouldn't use those sensetive words such as " Miss You" as everyone's culture is different. For westerner they seems to accept kiss or hug as greeting but not for the traditional culture. "
Scenario 1
BF type to other gal in msn:"hey long time no see, miss you"
GF:(suddenly pops out from behind) MISS YOU!? why do you type miss you to another girl?
BF: er... no la.. the girl's surname is YOU.. Miss You is just a polite way to address her
GF: Ooo..so funny la surname is you..haha....okla.. don online too long.. go to sleep earlier(walk away)
BF: u too honey! (grins *)
Scenario 2
BF type to other gal in msn:"hey long time no see, miss you"
GF:(suddenly pops out from behind) MISS YOU!? why do you type miss you to another girl?
BF: er... no la.. that is a BOY over there.. very geli 1 him.. use girl's nickname in his msn
GF: Yerr.. so GAY... okla.. don online too long.. go to sleep earlier(walk away)
BF: u too honey! (grins *)
"Relationship is about give and takes. It works well if you are able to tolerate or compromise each other."
teeheehee!
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